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About two years ago I was able to confirm that my husband, a senior pastor, was having an affair with my 'good friend.' He resigned in disgrace. He asked for another chance and I welcomed him home. He was home for almost another year, but after catching him with her time and again, I divorced him. The affair continues even though HER divorce is still not final. He is on his third job in a year and a half and is looking for yet another. He no longer pays his full child support/alimony and tells me he is a month away from bankruptcy.
We do have a high school age daughter who despises both her father and his girlfriend. This woman curried my daughter's favor with lots of attention and expensive gifts believing my daughter would choose to live with the two of them when the time came. She is haughty and unrepentant and quite condescending toward me.
I have more good days than bad days now, but I still struggle with anger and heartbreak. I have searched all over the country and have not yet found someone who can link me up with someone who has worn my shoes. I want to know how others have handled this and to hear that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Does anyone have any insight?
